Sunday, May 3, 2009

You're In The "Friend Zone" And Your Situation Seems Next To Impossible Right Now…

Don't worry guys, i know , no one wants to really be in the friend zone.But how many movies are out there that show that sometimes the friend turns into the perfect companion, boyfriend, husband?

Now, don't get me wrong, i know being in the friend zone sucks, but sometimes it's also necessary so that you can learn more about women in a more positive way.


I know how it feels. The both of you probably have something great going on; you absolutely love hanging out, being together with her, beyond a shadow of a doubt...

She feels the same too... she likes you, but ONLY as a friend. You seemed cool about it, but beneath that external façade, deep-rooted within your inner gut, you know you want something ‘much more’ than that.

Truth is, your heart longs to get past the “friends” stage and be that guy she “falls for” more than anything else... and you're probably shaking your head, confused as hell and feeling terribly unsure on what to do to progress to the ‘next level’ with her.

Does that sound familiar at all?
You're falling madly for her… you just know she's "the one"... the one who causes your palms to sweat, your heart to beat faster, and your stomach to flip whenever you hear her voice, smell her perfume, or even sense her being nearby.

"The one".

And as your affection for her grows stronger by the day, so does your feelings of insecurity … mainly because you couldn't tell whether or not she felt the same way.

…Yet at the same time, like a jittery, scorching hot pressure cooker dying to blow its top, it's tearing you apart, more than you even care to admit… as you become more self-conscious and uneasy around her, fearing you might just “screw things up” if you confessed your true feelings for her.
It's Killing You Inside...

You're constantly guessing...

What if you finally decide to 'bite the bullet' and pour it all out; revealing how you truly feel for her, and as you're asking her to be your girlfriend, the only words that could come out of her shaky voice was…

"l... I... like you... but... can we just stay as friends?"

Uuuugh.

Your heart will shatter to pieces… your world, crumbling before your very own eyes… like a TON of bricks has fallen over your head… pounding mercilessly on your already weakened knees and shoulders.

Imagine the embarrassment, the depression and the PAIN you'll feel....

Imagine how AWKWARD it'll be for her then?

You obviously DON'T want that to happen as

Your Friendship Will NEVER Be The Same Again...

Honestly i feel really terrible for the guys that get stuck in "the zone", but at the same time i don't get it. I just can't seem to understand why men get so upset when you tell them you love them as a friend.

With the help of my male friends (oops) i've come to realize that is it a real problem that men have when dealing with women. NO ONE wants to be "the friend".
Maybe it's an ego thing, who knows, but there is help out there believe it or not.
There are countless Ebooks that help you get out of the ZONE...
I was blessed enough to come into contact with someone on the infamous Twitter that gave me a link to such a book and according to him it has a very success rate.

So anyone that's interested give it a try, after all, what could it hurt right? Click Here!

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