Dating 101...or 102 0r 103..

Hi again..
I thought i would appeal to the male population in reguards to finding a possible mate. Now let's get away from the one night stands and so forth, i'm talking about really dating.

I've come acrossed a lot of men that want to be single and run around , but there are those few that want to find that girl of their dreams, so either way sit back and listen.

Women aren't as complicated as they seem (well most of them) we are very simple creatures when we're not hormonal. We get up, do our routines, feed the kids (if we have them) and check the mirror to see if our asses look fat in that outfit..

Now it may seem strange to you that a woman wants to help you understand women and that's ok, but someone has to right?

Subject...online dating (the nightmare)

Most women are very skeptical about finding love online, but in this day and age it's easier than dealing with drunk people at a bar or hoping that someone will approach you at a store. We spend a lot of time in the bathroom and our closets finding that perfect look only to be shot down when you give a little smile standing in line at the grocery store.
One thing i've experienced is being watched while walking around and having the man NEVER say a word. Is it that he's afraid of rejection? Or he has food on his shirt? Who knows, but the fact of the matter is he says nothing.

So when it comes to online dating we have the same reservations about men. You start chatting, think there's a connection and he moves on to the next best thing. Online dating has caused most women to have NO self esteem what so ever. You can't have a few extra pounds or you're rejected...you can't be a certain ethnicity or you're rejected....you can't have kids or you're rejected...either way, you're rejected!
And the ultimate...if you're not spread all over a bed half dressed then you're just not what he's looking for.

Do i know why this is? I wish i did, at least i could make some sense of it. There are more singles around then there are married couples, why is that?, well mostly because no one communicates, and thats something that needs to be addressed. When i go online to "meet someone" i look for key things:

1)does he like kids?
2)is he married?
3) is he looking for long term?
4)does he have a girlfriend?

Not all women are interested in a profile that states relationship status: "it's complicated"...only thing that means to a woman that's really looking for someone is that you're married or in a relationship and all you're looking to do is have fun on the side. I'm sure that there are some women out there are into that sort of thing, but NOT ALL!!!

This is a little something to get you started, but in the future, believe me there will be more......