Hello All....
I was sitting around thinking of something that really puts a wrench in most online dating and one thing that comes to mind is chatting. Chatting is a great way to get to know someone (kind of) before actually meeting them in person, but it could also mean a quick crash and burn before you ever get to that possible first date.
One thing that tends to bother women is the simple question "what do u like sexually", now i can see after meeting and maybe kind of dating for a bit before asking something like this, but not in the first five minutes of talking to a stranger. Look, there are a ton of sites out there that cater to that specifically , but if your intention is to find someone real, that approach is not going to work. Not only is it rude, but it's the perfect way to lose a potential partner.
The other important issue for women as well as men is respect, after all how do you expect the partner of your dreams to drop in your lap if the first thing you do or ask for is a nude pic being sent. That is a no no. Showing that you have respect in yourself is at times very appealing to the person that you're talking to, if not then they're just not the one for you. Besides, once it's online...it could show up anywhere!
Now to the point of "red flags"...if you sense them the best thing to do is run for dear life. You'll thank yourself later.
If at any time the conversation you're having starts to make you uncomfortable express it. If the person suddenly loses interest, don't worry it's not you, it will be obvious that they're looking for a FWB (friends with benefits) type situation and if that's not what you want then don't bother, it's not worth your time.
Hopefully this helps a little...good luck!
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