As a little experiment i've talked to a few of my friends and we've all found it funny that there is a classification of "the nice guy" when it comes to the dating world. This is by far the most ingenious plan when it comes to men trying to impress women (outside the corny 70's lines). Now don't get me wrong there really are nice guys in this world, but when a man broadcasts it he's not one of them. Sort of like the rule that if a man has to brag about what he has down there then it's probably going to be more fun to watch paint dry for the night.....
Anyways, back to the subject! I'm really excited about this one because i've run into it so many times. (If I Had a Nickle For Everytime.....) Now you can spot this type a mile away, they give you the needy (I'm Shy) looks , but won't approach you. You're thinking for a second aww how sweet, but in the mean time they're sizing you up. If they do approach you after stalking you for a short time, then it's ON!
Now ladies beware of these lines.........
"You're the most beautiful woman i've ever seen"
OH and "Can I Holla At You For A Minute"
There are a lot more , but we can't reveal all of our secrets now can we.
We all know the signs of "i would be so happy if i could take you out to dinner" but it's never too long before the BS kicks in.
I'll share a story with you.....
I met this man online and at first i was a little hesitant, but he seemed to be ok, so i took a chance and started talking to him a little more and some what got to know him. We chatted back and forth for a while online and eventually started talking on the phone and texting. It was fun and sorry to say as a woman i started to feel flattered by all the compliments and joking around. I'll admit, i did look forward to the texts and calls after a short time, all the while forgetting the woman rule .
This went on for a few weeks and i finally got the courage to go on a date (he stressed the fact that he was a good guy), flags were screaming, but i decided against it and set up a time. Needless to say i fell into "the nice guy" trap. It was the standard, dinner and a movie , which i must admit i did have a good time. But the story ends at the door.
I know you can hear the funeral music can't you! It was talking in the car laughing a little and then the kiss good night.......
That sealed it (or so he thought) kissing turned into heavy petting and when told to stop, well let's just say that was the end of it. He gave me the standard smile and i'll call you tomorrow.
I'm sure some ladies can relate.
So men of the world...that routine is getting old and more women are catching onto the certain little signs. My advice....just be honest and upfront with what it is that you want and if you have to move on so be it.
Just a little to think about.........
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